What is unfinished business, and are you experiencing any?
Unfinished business refers to the lingering emotional chaos between two entities, people, or energies. It can manifest in various ways, such as a sudden cold shoulder from someone you care about, an unexplained dream, or the absence of a familiar pet in the park – all creating a sense of incompleteness that leads to curiosity, anxiety, anger, or overthinking, depending on how it ended. If thought about excessively, it consumes your energy, leaving you exhausted and affecting your mental and physical health.
When I have unresolved business with someone, I find myself overthinking in various situations, negatively impacting my mood. Sometimes, I even neglect my daily routines, like cooking breakfast, due to mental exhaustion in the morning shower. I believe that even if you try to move on, curiosity about the unexplained reason may still bug you at any moment without warning. But how do we break this cycle? It surely takes more than just talking. If the issue is a misunderstanding, conversation might work, but it’s not always an option. What if the other person refuses to talk or you don’t want to create a scene? Or what if you’ve lost your birthday gift in a river and don’t know how to swim? Or your role model has attempted suicide.
In such cases, acceptance, journaling, and understanding the other perspective are essential. Seek closure if possible or try to make peace with it. Share it with your loved ones or a therapist. However, prioritize self-care and avoid compromising your well-being in pursuit of answers or solutions to everything. Remember, unfinished business is a karmic cycle – either you’ll find the courage to end it, or the universe will bring it back into your life to prompt closure, but mostly it comes with better replacements. Staying positive can be a key stone to overcome such situations.
Don’t forget to share your experiences and approaches while dealing with these energies in the comments.”
I agree that some unfinished businesses must be left to Karma and we must stay back and try to heal ourselves and stay positive. I also believe there must be some unfinished businesses in our lives that will remind us from time to time our lessons, to build ourselves in a better way, to change our perspective, and much more. Important is we don’t let ourselves overthink for the unfinished businesses.